I could go to jail for what you're doing. First off, what you're doing can get me in trouble. You're young and curious but there's a number of reasons why it's not okay for you to be doing that and we should talk about them. I don't want to embarass you but you've been crossing the line when we're a sleep. Sometimes uncomfortable conversations are necessary. Yes, there's some uncomfortable conversation. You can re-enforce your views that you're okay with him being gay and that it won't change your relationship with him without waiting for him to come out. I think you can make new rules about a cuddle before bed but then shoo him off to bed before falling asleep. I think patonic cuddling between family members is fine. Find a willing partner who wants to consent. He's got to pursue the sexual expression like everyone else. He's not necessarily gay but he's certainly "curious" but he doesn't get to check you out because of the available circumstances. I'm not sure what the age of majority is in your country but even if you're only on the receiving end of the attention, it could qualify as statutory rape. Someone else might not (A buddy from class whom he goes on a sleep over with).
I think you need to talk to him about consent. I think you need to talk to him about it.
I don't know what to do, and i need advice. but if i dont do anything he will just continue. Im just super uncomfortable about it and i dont want to confront him or embarrass him if he's gay or whatever, because my relationship with him means everything to me. i figure this is why he always wants to sleep together, but he's been sleeping with me since he was like 6, thats why it didnt feel like anything was odd. So i have came to the conclusion that my brother is taking advantage of my deep sleep, and feeling my body while im not aware. he played like he was sleeping again, but i could tell he wasn't, i just moved to his bed and let him think that i was unaware. i did the same thing as last time, except this time i acted like i fully came out of my sleep and started looking around the room.
the same thing happened, a little bit of time went by and he started to reach for another feel. he quickly retracted his hand and acted like he was sleeping. i felt super awkward so i stretched and moved like i was waking up. he waited for a little bit and then started to feel around some more, fully grabbing my junk. So im laying there for like 20 mins and i feel my brothers hand crawl across my body towards my "package" i was almost sleeping so i just kept laying there. 2 nights ago it happened again and i had trouble getting back to sleep. sometimes ill move to his bed for the rest of the night to get some rest and away from his fidgeting, anyways a couple nights in a row i would wake up a couple times a night and i would be super horny, with my brother sleeping close to me. he says its "more comfortable" this isn't anything new so once again i have not thought anything of it.įor the past month he's been waking me up with his constant moving while he sleeps, i'm a very deep sleeper. we share a room and sometimes he wants to share my bed. I feel like he looks up to me alot for guidance and protection and stuff. he's not shy at all, when we do activities like swimming, so hes super comfortable at least around me, and he will just get naked and change and not give it a second thought. i've cried with him, laughed, greived, everything. Okay so basically i'll start like this, I'm 18 and straight, and my little brother 12 years old turning 13 soon has been very close to me for a long time, we do everything together, go swimming, ride bikes, play ball, you name it. Okay so im not really familiar with reddit so im not sure where this post goes but, i am having a weird time lately.